The Soul Matters is a program shared by over 170 UU congregations, including Northlake Unitarian Universalist Church, who explore the same monthly worship themes. In this way we build greater connections as Unitarian Universalists.
March 2018 – Risk
James Baldwin wrote, “To act is to be committed, and to be committed is to be in danger.” Risk is usually associated with the dare devils and thrill seekers. The real danger, we’re told, is a life of boredom. The battle is between the bland and the bold. Yet, as James Baldwin reminds us, it’s not quite that simple. He places commitment, not thrills, at the center of the game. For him, the ones to be admired are not so much the dare devils as the dedicated ones. From this perspective, the important question about life is not “Are you willing to jump off? Will you be daring?” but rather “Are you willing to jump in? Will you stay true?” The most deeply rewarding risks are the ones that involve jumping into causes and putting our hearts in the hands of others. Join us this month as we explore how we risk jumping in for our most important commitments.
February 2018 – Perseverance
Most often when talking about perseverance, we’re asked, “Are you ready to be strong?” The standard recipe is well known: Keep moving forward! Dig deep; you are stronger than you know! But maybe this isn’t the path to perseverance; maybe it’s just the path to breakdown. As a people of perseverance, we are being called not just to grit and strong wills, but to gentleness and self-care. Constantly pushing ourselves without also giving ourselves the gift of pause gets us nowhere. Perhaps vulnerability is the real secret to perseverance. We don’t have to give up those pep talks about digging deep, but right alongside that, let’s make sure we’re doing the more tender work of propping each other up and reminding each other to breathe.
January 2018 – Prophecy
UU theologian Rebecca Parker wrote “Our times ask us to exercise our capacity for prophetic witness…our capacity to see what is happening, to say what is happening and to act in accordance with what we know…Prophetic witness…is the ability to name those places where we resist knowing what needs to be known.” We need prophetic communities now more than ever. Most of the time, holy work is about finding common ground among differing world views. But sometimes, holy work is about prophetic judgment and knowing when some views need to be opposed.
November 2017 – Simplicity
It’s not just society that celebrates status, stuff and over-scheduled lives; we cling to them as well. The busyness of our lives is not just overwhelming; it’s also seductive. Over-scheduled lives don’t just tip us over; they tempt us. They promise us power, affirmation, and proof that we are worthy. To be busy is to have made it. To be over-committed is to be wanted and needed. No wonder we have such a hard time giving it all up. Changing how we perceive this busyness takes courage and the support of an alternative community that celebrates a different equation of “worthy living”.
October 2017 – Healing
That Does It Mean To Be A Community of Healing? The easy answer: it takes work – a dedication and a willingness to dig in – to fix what’s been broken, to listen away each others’ pain, to ask for and to offer forgiveness when we are not the good people we so want to be. So yes, it is easy to remember that it takes work. But what if we remembered that healing always begins with perception and sight? Let us begin to reframe to open our hearts to healing.
September 2017 – Invitation
Invitation calls us to make space, to create an openness that welcomes someone, or some idea, in. How do we cultivate such a space, in our physical landscapes and in our hearts and minds? What practices do we need to engage to open ourselves up to what is offered to us, and to offer space to another? We invite you to engage with all the aspects of invitation in this month of new beginnings.